There’s nothing better than a great relationship.
And nothing harder than a bad one. 

hatever you call them, difficult relationships can hijack our lives, our hopes, and our futures. They can make us feel like hostages because we feel we need to do everything we can to keep our partner, friend, or family member happy at the expense of our own lives.

It doesn’t have to be this way.

For over twenty years I have helped people who feel trapped in toxic relationships to get stronger, take control of their lives again, and if they choose, to break free of the prison of emotional and verbal abuse.

If you are in a difficult, toxic, or emotionally abusive relationship it can be hard to imagine breaking free. You know the fear that grips you when think you have done something that makes your partner unhappy or angry, so the thought of getting help and support for yourself feels impossible.

It’s not only possible, once you make that first call you will know that you have an ally in your corner. Someone who understands these relationships and knows how hard you have tried every single day to make things better. And someone who also knows that it doesn’t work; that whatever you do, however you act, whatever you say or how gently and carefully you say it, they still get angry. And anger turns to blame, and shame, and you end up apologizing for something you didn’t even do, or say, or mean, just to calm the waters.

I get it. You aren’t alone. Or at least you don’t have to be. Let me help you to find yourself again. You’re still in there, I promise.